“Tact is the art of making a point without making an enemy.” - Isaac Newton
" Tact: Acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including
the ability to speak or act without offending." -the American Heritage Dictionary
"For success in life, tact is more important than talent," or so said John Lubbock. He went to to say that it is hard for those who do not come by the art of tact naturally to learn to apply it. Still, he goes on to say that if one considers the wishes of others tact can be accomplished. You can read the entire essay by pulling it up on my sidebar. I found it very interesting and I have decided that for this week I am going to try and consider the wishes of others before my own. Now, that doesn't mean I go against my own principles or beliefs, for as Lubbock acknowledges, one must still be able to say no when necessary and appropriate, but saying no can be done while showing respect and restraint.
Also, I am going to read Lubbock's essay more closely and reflect upon it. I'm sure I've already mis-interpreted something, misapplied some knowledge, overstepped boundaries, insulted someone, and made plenty of mistakes trying to become more tactful. I hope there's a little humor along the way and I hope I am not the only one attempting to become more tactful.
Also, I am going to read Lubbock's essay more closely and reflect upon it. I'm sure I've already mis-interpreted something, misapplied some knowledge, overstepped boundaries, insulted someone, and made plenty of mistakes trying to become more tactful. I hope there's a little humor along the way and I hope I am not the only one attempting to become more tactful.